TRUST…!!!

The worst fear in life for a person is when he feels cheated, when he feels cheated and deprived of what he deserves. There could be times when you will completely trust somethings or somepeople, trust the word in itself brings in so much strength and dependence in the thing you believe to be true, and when this trust is shaken heavily, when this trust is put into dump, when this trust was neglected, when this trust was never realized that is when your brain starts to play hide and seek with your heart.

When brain starts playing with your heart your life will surely go for a toss and in the end if brain wins your heart looses, if heart wins brain looses. Both the cases are for sure going to bring absolute poverty in your life. When brain wins your heart becomes a huge stone-henge with no room for eternity and peace. When you let your heart win the brain becomes a colossal dump of unwanted thoughts which will clear of all the learning’s that you had accumulated in the years of your life.

Having trust is not wrong, in fact as human being the only factor that keeps us going in life is the trust that we have in supreme power above us. But the problem arises when this trust is entrusted on wrong things. Trust is such a powerful weapon that when laid on wrong things it has the ability to bounce back on you and even kill you at times. A person can go to the lowest of his life when his trust on something withers like a leaf that unusually withers in spring.

But nevertheless everything bad also has a good side to it. A  wrong trust is always going to teach you goods lessons. It’s going to make you stronger person from time to time. The journey that this lesson takes you can be a journey into a dark cave with thorns that are going to rip you apart, howbeit you are going to come out of it cleansed and more purer a person.

In the end….as the saying goes,

When winter comes can spring be far behind….

For every wrong trust that puts you into a black hole, there is going to be an eternal trust that is going to take you to the epitome of life and make your journey on this planet glitter as the leaves of spring.

Disturbing factor!!

There is always this one thing that is always a disturbing factor for people. Everybody has a sole purpose in their life for which they strive day and night, and more often this sole purpose of birth becomes the disturbing factor. Even more interesting is for some people the disturbing factor is that they never found out the reason for their birth. The purpose differs from person to person for some their purpose was to just earn a living for their family, for some it was to save some one’s life from their death bed, for some it could be to just enjoy life and spend their parents life earnings lavishly, even more for some it could just be to live. Half of a man’s destiny is attained when he finds out this purpose of birth and when he finds out I think it will no more be a disturbing factor. Another very interesting factor that you will notice in today’s world is when people have their own life and responsibility they often forget that it would be so simpler if they concentrate only on that and not wander about trying to use other’s shoes. Imagine if the sun instead of concentrating on its duty to give us a pleasant day, had in the name of helping the moon concentrated in giving us the night. Neither is the sun going to achieve in bringing a pleasant day nor is it going to know how to bring about a beautiful night. So the sun will not only eventually fail in its duty but also be a hindrance to the moon in achieving its life’s goal. It is not just with the sun or moon, the same thing goes with everything in the universe be it a small crawling ant or the giant mountains, the smallest weeds or a tallest redwood tree, the smartest creation of god men and women, all of us have a purpose for which we are here in this earth. Let’s just concentrate on that and try to achieve it passionately, then the so called disturbing factor will cease to exist.

Machismo!!!!!!!!!!

Well I have always wanted to write about this topic but the girl in me has always suppressed this idea of writing about men, finally I gather all the strength to write about you guys and I start writing when I'm almost half done everything is gone, my laptop shuts down for some reason god knows, and everything I wrote has gone in vain!!! U guys are always a boon and a bane to us girls!!!!! take for example this laptop, I write about you guys and it stops working all of a sudden, and in the end its going to be one of u guys repairing it.!!! this is just a small example of how much a women depends on men in this world to lead a simple life.

Take the other day I happened to go to a shop on my scooty, the shopkeeper almost half my size, and age was such a bug, kept asking me to buy this and that finally I had to rush outside to escape from his pestering, but the same guy minutes later was putting in all the strength he had, to help me start my bike which is also slowly dying day by day.!! Finally without that guy that day I would have ended up rolling my bike all the way back home.!!

It has become a cliché to make blind remarks like “male chauvinism” “male dominance” “men disparaging women” and so on and so forth by women in today’s society. There are always groups who keep bouncing on men saying they belittle women. We are always ready to say beat down men or blame them for their unruly behavior. There are so many women organizations, NGO’s, who keep talking about equality for women day and night. There are people sitting and tweeting on social sites that “men are demons”, “men are cruel hearted”, “all men are dominating”. We come across so many social activists and bloggers even men, who write about women being belittled by men. Sometimes it looks like men themselves try to seek attention of the society by blaming their fellow companions.

But we as women have forgotten that men play perennial roles in our lives. There can be no single passing day without men intervening in our lives. Right from when we were first created in a womb were men helped us give form, till our death when we are carried to our tombstones by men, they have always made our lives livable in this world. They have taken so many different roles like grandfather, father, brother, friend, colleague, lover, husband, uncle, and the relationships go on. If we keenly notice every role a man has taken in his life was always to protect a woman. A father got his name because he had a daughter to take care of, A brother got his name because he has a sister to play with. A husband got his name because he has a wife who is waiting back at his house every day for him to return back from office to show her love and affection. This way I would say woman are born to nurture new life and men are born to shelter and protect them and guide them in this eternal process.

When we understand this then the cycle called human cycle will run as smoothly as it was intended by god!!

Empty Mind!!

It is always said that an empty mind is a devil’s workshop, But I really wonder if at any point in time can a human mind be empty or rather is any mind which is completely occupied isn’t evil. It makes me wonder what is the real state of a mind which is empty. Does an empty mind mean the brain is dead or is no more functional? or, Does it mean that the person has gone to a state of black out, if so it makes me wonder if people in today’s world are all in a black out state were they have all gone to a state of unconsciousness. A state in which no one knows about the real reason for their existence, a state in which they have forgotten their mere purpose of birth into this world. They are living a superficial life which co-exist between the divinely and beastly beings. Living to defeat others or rather finding peace in oneself by destroying others around is being considered the way of life in today's world. So I would like to rephrase the sentence to 
                                     "Any mind in today's world is devils workshop".

Stages of life

In every human life there exist two stages, one stage I would call it the getting stage and the other the giving stage. Getting stage is the first half of our life, and giving is the latter half of our life. Getting stage is when we acquire almost everything from everyone around us. Right from when we were in mother’s womb where we acquired life, and then the necessary nutrients which gave us a form. When we came out to this world, we got care and love which are the two most quintessential for any human being, from everyone around us. Then as a kid we got food, clothing and education from our parents. We got knowledge from teachers. We learnt to show care and love for other beings from our grandparents, we learnt to share things from our siblings, we learnt to fight and at the same time forgive from our friends. As we grew we learnt to live an ambitious life from our society. So, once we learn the skill of being ambitious we also start learning how to be shrewd, how to be cruel, how to belittle others, how to live a life which will bring happiness only to you by way of destroying others. So apparently we forget to fulfill our second stage in our life which is giving. We forget to give back the basic amenities which we got as a kid from our parents when they need it. We forget to give back the love and care we got from our grandparents in their last stage’s, we even consider our very own parents who gave us life and form, as a burden so where is the talk of showing love and care to their parents. As a kid when we were able to share small things like pencil and toy with siblings, but as a grownup we don’t even bother to share our precious time with them once a while so busy with our own life. We forget to give our shoulders to our friends when they are in need of it. So let us not forget that in order to maintain the beam balance called life, giving is as important as was the getting stage of our life. 

FEAR

Everybody has a fear about one certain thing in this world sometimes it’s about the most silliest thing on this world like ants and cockroaches or some people have this weirdest fear of death, some are constantly scared of encountering the un existing ghosts in their life or some just scared that they will be beaten up by their parents for any silly thing they do on a daily basis. Some might be scared of facing their boss or some may be scared of facing natural calamities, some of terrorists or bomb blasts. Some may be scared of nights because they have insomnia or some may be scared of days because they have Heliophobia (Fear of sun). There could be fear of driving a cycle or being hijacked while travelling in a flight. Some are feared of losing half a mark in an exam and thereby flunking in the exam or some loosing half mark for cent-um. Some are feared of praying to god, some are scared of betraying god by praying less. A new born will be scared to face the light of this world for the first time and a man in his death bed will be scared to face darkness of death for first time. This four letter word called fear has manifested itself into so many forms and has occupied a major part in every man’s life. Nevertheless like everybody I too have one fear in life. A fear which has constantly shown me the right path to lead this world with determination and zeal. A fear of fulfilling my reason for birth. A fear which has helped me keep the promises I made to myself and to God. The promise being to conquer my world through sheer love and honesty, the constant fear of breaking this promise.

Joyeux anniversaire !!

One year sounds such a short period, but this one year is such a long journey in my life. This is a journey which showed me the real life lying ahead of me. It’s been one year since I started earning my own penny and saving too. It’s been a year since I moved out of the comfortable shelter which my parents, my school, my college had given me all these years. It’s been a year since I started handling real people in my life other than my own friends and surroundings. It’s been a year since I started putting in meager amount of money along with my dad for household expenses.. (Which is mostly getting my own cosmetics, trying out new accessories, trying to set my own style statement!!! :P :P) I’m sure this would have helped my dad reduce his monthly expense to half. It’s been a year since my loved friends from college left me and went across sea’s to start their own journey of life, and as it is rightly said “When you close some doors it also means you are opening other doors.” I also met few of the best people in my life in this one year. It’s been almost a year since I stopped dancing. A year has passed since I stopped worrying about being a health freak, because this IT job demands a lot of coffee, tea, snacks, break, treat, and so on. I am no more the person who used to keep a diet book and monitor what I eat, anything and everything I see edible I indulge in tasting it. Most important of all it’s been a year since I wrote tests and exams, last minute studying has become a forgotten ritual in my life. Well, it’s also been a year since I started writing blogs!!!! So many of you have constantly encouraged me in this process, some have really taken care in reading and giving valuable suggestions every time. One or two have always laughed at me for my attempt of writing blogs, I’m pretty sure many are waiting to spam my BlogSpot the next time I share my blogs with them, nevertheless I love to write and I will keep writing till my heart says to stop. Because,

“We should remember that wherever your heart is, you’ll find your treasure there”-Paulo Coelho!!