Well I have always wanted to write about this topic but the girl in me has always suppressed this idea of writing about men, finally I gather all the strength to write about you guys and I start writing when I'm almost half done everything is gone, my laptop shuts down for some reason god knows, and everything I wrote has gone in vain!!! U guys are always a boon and a bane to us girls!!!!! take for example this laptop, I write about you guys and it stops working all of a sudden, and in the end its going to be one of u guys repairing it.!!! this is just a small example of how much a women depends on men in this world to lead a simple life.
Take the other day I happened to go to a shop on my scooty, the shopkeeper almost half my size, and age was such a bug, kept asking me to buy this and that finally I had to rush outside to escape from his pestering, but the same guy minutes later was putting in all the strength he had, to help me start my bike which is also slowly dying day by day.!! Finally without that guy that day I would have ended up rolling my bike all the way back home.!!
It has become a cliché to make blind remarks like “male chauvinism” “male dominance” “men disparaging women” and so on and so forth by women in today’s society. There are always groups who keep bouncing on men saying they belittle women. We are always ready to say beat down men or blame them for their unruly behavior. There are so many women organizations, NGO’s, who keep talking about equality for women day and night. There are people sitting and tweeting on social sites that “men are demons”, “men are cruel hearted”, “all men are dominating”. We come across so many social activists and bloggers even men, who write about women being belittled by men. Sometimes it looks like men themselves try to seek attention of the society by blaming their fellow companions.
Take the other day I happened to go to a shop on my scooty, the shopkeeper almost half my size, and age was such a bug, kept asking me to buy this and that finally I had to rush outside to escape from his pestering, but the same guy minutes later was putting in all the strength he had, to help me start my bike which is also slowly dying day by day.!! Finally without that guy that day I would have ended up rolling my bike all the way back home.!!
It has become a cliché to make blind remarks like “male chauvinism” “male dominance” “men disparaging women” and so on and so forth by women in today’s society. There are always groups who keep bouncing on men saying they belittle women. We are always ready to say beat down men or blame them for their unruly behavior. There are so many women organizations, NGO’s, who keep talking about equality for women day and night. There are people sitting and tweeting on social sites that “men are demons”, “men are cruel hearted”, “all men are dominating”. We come across so many social activists and bloggers even men, who write about women being belittled by men. Sometimes it looks like men themselves try to seek attention of the society by blaming their fellow companions.
But we as women have forgotten that men play perennial roles
in our lives. There can be no single passing day without men intervening in our
lives. Right from when we were first created in a womb were men helped us give
form, till our death when we are carried to our tombstones by men, they have
always made our lives livable in this world. They have taken so many different
roles like grandfather, father, brother, friend, colleague, lover, husband,
uncle, and the relationships go on. If we keenly notice every role a man has
taken in his life was always to protect a woman. A father got his name because
he had a daughter to take care of, A brother got his name because he has a
sister to play with. A husband got his name because he has a wife who is
waiting back at his house every day for him to return back from office to show
her love and affection. This way I would say woman are born to nurture new life
and men are born to shelter and protect them and guide them in this eternal
process.
When we understand this then the cycle called human cycle will run as smoothly as it was intended by god!!
