Tuesday, July 5, 2016

Sea saw

Sometimes life puts a lot of puzzles in front of your eyes, one day you sit and feel the pride and satisfaction that you have conquered your world the other day all the pride goes for a toss and you are feeling the world is showing a standstill in front of your eyes. Questions to many unanswerable thoughts will pop in the so called brains. Well talking about brain, I just realised that brain is one villain that keeps playing sea saw with your heart in many circumstances of life. Yes, and when you feel your heart is at the top filled with happiness and pride about its victory all of a sudden the brain gets its strength, may be from the outside world pushes itself to the top and makes the heart go deep down and bury itself into the soil. And thus the demonish brain sustains it's happiness at the cost of sinking the heart into pools of tears. If the heart doesn't try to keep its balance with brain it's going to remain buried in gravels of sadness. So it's very important that both the heart and the brain play the sea saw called life in harmony in order to give a beautiful picturisation to its viewers.

Tuesday, March 29, 2016

Virtualistic realism


I think it’s been a while since I bugged you people to read my blogs, and I think it’s high time that I write another blog just to drain my brain of all the thoughts and learning’s that stands stagnated in my brain over  these months. Almost four years since I finished my education and entered this so called corporate world, but wouldn’t really say finished my education, because this is where I have started learning more about the real world, the world that appears so colorful and lively from the outside, but to me it is just a dark hollow space filled with virtual people, virtual life and a virtual emotions. This world appears so fast and belligerent that people end up faking everything even their life not knowing how to cope with the fast moving IT world. They are trying to fake the work they do feared they might be kicked by boss if it deviates from routine, they fake the food they eat feared they might be considered unfit in this corporate world, they fake the people with whom they want to spend their leisure time fearing they will be left apart otherwise, they fake the clothes they wear trying to imitate others just so they appear trendy. They try to fake going on foreign tours for vacation, though they have a beautiful pleasant hometown full of life and true people. When faking their lifestyle sounds so pathetic, what is more disheartening is people fake emotions, people fake relationships, and people fake friendships. Just as everything else which they use fancifully, they have started using people and thereby their life is turning out to be a fairy land in dream, where all the angels disappear once they open their eyes. With these random thoughts about people, life and emotions I will get back to you guys with a more interesting blog and for now let me go and discover new ways to fake this life.
As always we will end up learning something from Paulo Coelho on human life:
“Life is eternal, and we have stopped for a moment to encounter each other, to meet, to love, to share. And this short interval of meeting is precious. A little parenthesis in eternity. ”
Let our short interval of encounter with humanity be true and real in this eternal world, let us not fake it.!!!! :D

Sunday, February 21, 2016

Life's learning

Four months into learning to be a responsible daughter and daughter in law, loving and caring wife, I have certain thoughts pondering in my head which is worth sharing with you all.
When there is not even a perk of rice our stomach expects to have atleast rice with water. When we have that our mind tells ur to have rice with curry, when we have that our mind tells us we should be having atleast two varieties a meal, when we have variety mind pushes us to have a sumptuous grand meal.
This way the very purpose of a state of being is changed by the greediness of mind. When just rice and water can suffice hunger we are pushed to have a grand meal, so we forget the sole purpose which is being hungry and we concentrate on the meal. Where hunger has to be the state of mind and meal is just a tool to handle hunger, but our greedy mind makes meal as the king and hunger is pushed to the back seat. This is not only in food, these days everything is being reversed. In everything we do the state of being is pushed to the back and the tool becomes the purpose. For example men and women tie knots to build a family to nurture love and affection, and everything from food clothing money shelter education knowledge are just tools that will help in enhancing their love for each other, but in today's world love and affection is sent to the back seat and we run behind temporary solace called money and wealth forgetting the permanent and eternal love between people.
We say we are earning money for the family and work day and night without spending time with family, which is funny because when you can't afford "time" and "love" what is the point in affording money. having said so much finally
"Money is only a tool but the sole purpose of a family is love and affection."
Let us use the tool(wealth) and grow the plant (family) and not just keep collecting  the tools while the plant is dying slowly.
With these thoughts running in my mind, and me running to office to earn a perk catch you all next time.

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