Sunday, April 7, 2013

Birthday- A RED LETTER DAY FOR ONE AND ALL!!!

This blog is going to be one of my most cherished blog ever, because this is the first time i'm actually writing a blog, Now don't panic and assume that I have copied all my other blogs, this is the first time I penned a blog all my other blogs were created in laptop.

So, having said that I made up my mind to keep it as short as possible in order to save papers, and to think of the turmoil I have to undergo to type the blog yet another time gives me horripilation.

Well, on the other day I had a friendly conversation with my friends actually we were planning a birthday surprise for my Anniii. All of us came up with crazy ideas, the friendly conversation apparently ended in a heated conversation. Well, don't worry it is as usual because of Mr.Puli who always has this different perspective about almost everything in life, but, not as different as mine I would proudly say. The moment I said birthday surprise, he shooted out this question "WHY ARE WE CELEBRATING BIRTHDAYS FOR??.  WHAT DID WE ACHIEVE IN LIFE TO CELEBRATE BIRTHDAY?? . BIRTHDAYS ARE SOMETHING WHICH COMES EVERY YEAR ". he asked these questions with such a haste that it sent a shock wave into my head and my brain started to ponder on different aspects of why we celebrate birthday's.

The first birthday we celebrated because our parents spread their joy of completing one year of parenthood. Then what about the other birthdays aren't they still completing a year of parenthood every year, shouldn't we celebrate it??.

All of us are born to complete a mission which god entrusted upon us, we are so busy with this duty that no one actually has time to value their life, value what god has given them. So every year we cross a milestone in completing this mission why shouldn't we celebrate it. People bluntly shoot out questions like  " WHAT DID WE ACHIEVE IN THIS WORLD TO CELEBRATE BIRTHDAY?" for those of you I would like to ask, what do you consider acheivement as, to become the most richest person?, to become a celebrity?, to become a super hero?. Well, achievement is not about these superficial things you attain.

When a man can make his presence at a place cherish-able  when you can bring about smile in the face of a person who is crying at heart, when people who believe in you feel completely protective in your presence, when your hands are always there for those who are slipping down from the rocks of life. when you have the power to change all negative energies around you into positive, that is when you have achieved in your life, and that is what is achievement is.

Achievement is bringing such small things together and making it as a wordly power. If this can be followed everyday, then we are achieving every day in our lives, and if we are achieving everyday I'm sure according to Puli's theory we can celebrate birthdays everyday.      

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