AN UN-ANSWERED QUESTION!!!

When I sit back to write my blog today, I put forward one Single question to myself, to all those who are going to read this blog, and to the god who is watching all of us at this moment, as far as I am concerned I believe that all of us were created by the same god, be it men or women we all have the same life, this being the case why do all of us see men and women as two different species, why is there a distinction shown between creatures created by the same god?

Right from the time this world was created women are considered to be an inferior creations of god, even at the time of “Adam and Eve”, Eve was blamed for a mistake which was apparently committed by both Adam and Eve. Even in Hindu mythology be it paanjali, or Sita, or name any female goddess there was always a controversy, and their lives were always depicted as lesser half of men.

Right from the days when  we had all Industrial revolutions taking place in this world till today were technological revolutions are taking place there is one thing which has never seen any revolution,

“The revolution’s in the life of women”. Over the years though women have taken up different roles in lives,

From being a mere house robot to ruling the nation, from being a kitchen-crate to a techno-crate, apparently only her roles have changed but not her life.

Though there are so many women's welfare associations, NGO’s working for the betterment of women,

 so many associations helping in protecting women, so many reservations for women in Government, but first of all why is there a difference created in society between men and women. Who gave us people, the rights to differentiate between same creations of god. If there wasn’t such a difference in the first place then men wouldn’t have started seeing her as inferior to him.

Only the day when women freely walk on the streets at any corner of the world, at any time of the day, even without the slightest fear of being beaten up by men, then we are doing justice to god and his work.        

Soul-Mate

A journey which started 22 years ago. A journey which molded me into who I am today... Yes, it's the journey of my life. On a cold morning of December 3, 22 years back two little lives entered this planet.. Everyone around was blissful and excited. Alas!!! The excitement faded in a days time when one life left this world in a very brief time, leaving behind all the duties which God had entrusted with both these lives into the hands of the second life. Yes this second life is none other than me. Born as a twin and loosing my companion I have always felt a loneliness deep inside me. Whoever comes into my life I am sure it will not replace my soul-mate given by god. Since my childhood I have always had this urge of having a sister with whom I can share part of my life, the clothes we wear, the dolls I adore, the games I play, the food I enjoy eating. But, ya god was not impartial in my life six years later he gave me back my soul-mate but this time in the form of a boy, well very soon I realized that a brother-sister relationship is far more eternal....
 "Love is just a word until someone comes along and gives it's meaning-Paulo Coelho" I think my brother gave me the meaning.

Corporate Readiness

Life as a corporate trainee is fun, but at the same time hectic. My peers are commendable and every passing minute I'm getting so close to each and everyone. They are a set of really intellectual people who could turn a  full moon into no-moon. My corporate induction went on pleasingly, we had one of the best trainers, Nisha a very brilliant and an ace trainer. Only after attending her English fluency class did I understand the intricacy of this language. The "aw" "oh" "AA" ......and the other sounds that we learnt were really awesome. Group discussions, the rockets we made, virtual volleyball everything was a mind boggling experience. Pinnacle session by Mr.Konrad made all of us reach our pinnacle, especially the Tarzan activity were we had to enact like Tarzan.Last day of my corporate induction program was a memorable one, we cut cake, presented Nisha with a beautiful keepsake and took loads of photos, most of all I made  really good friends and my real journey into corporate started from that day because ...

"I would rather walk with a friend in the dark, than alone in the light."

The Start Off

My journey into corporate kick started with, me wearing a purple dress my favourite and my mom giving me roti and chenna for lunch my favourite tooo...
As usual I reached wipro much before than everyone did, waited a couple of minutes until my new peers  or rather I would address them as colleague's came. We were asked to wait in the conference hall named 'cuckoo hall', wonder who is in-charge in naming these halls really weird. After a couple of minutes a boy and a girl not more than two years elderly to me walked in, they asked us to arrange all our documents prior to document verification. Well as usual I was the target early in the morning, I had no idea that I was not allowed to use phones inside the hall but yes I did and the guy who was incharge of the day caught me and from then on he kept nagging me....
Document verification went on well and then came the induction part were we had to introduce ourselves in front of the entire crowd of 200 people... imagine our plight standing in the conference hall and with mike in hand goddd!!! one by one everyone started introducing and then came my turn, wondered how I would manage this ordeal but, yes I did it,not only did I talk but ended up dancing and singing in front of the entire crowd, the guy who was nagging me was none other than the HR and he was very pleased with my intro!!!!!
First day of work came to an end at 6 in the evening with us getting a temporary ID card, our first ID from wipro!!!!! very proud and happy to hold the tag in my hand!! with loads of zeal and ambitions in mind I travel back home....
You can become blind by seeing each day as a similar one. Each day is a different one, each day brings a miracle of its own. It's just a matter of paying attention to this miracle.-paulo coelho

with these thoughts in mind I look forward for a fruitful journey ahead

An End to the Long Lasting Wait

When I sit down today to compose my first blog I am Overwhelmed with happiness not because I am writing my first blog but because in less than a days time I am going to enter into the most hyped world on this planet earth, yes it's called the corporate world.  Born into a typical orthodox family were most of us are first generation graduates, well it has become cliche to pursue engineering. Like every other Indian parent's who want their child to work for MN C's and TATA's my parent's too had the same dreams and thus i landed up into an Engineering college. Now after four years I step out into this world as an Electronics Engineer. My hard work has fetched a place into one of the top notch corporate companies. Well having said much about who I am and what society wants out of me, my brain is now confused with plethora of thoughts about who I am and what I am heading toward in this journey of life. When such random thoughts about life storms my brain, my dad rushes in with the new watch advertisement and wants me to get the latest trendy watches before I venture into work, on the other side my mom is busy filling my closet with brand new dresses. Everyone from grannies to uncles and aunts get me their share of gifts. Friends relentlessly asking for treats, siblings asking me for a new pair of converse or for the latest gadgets in the market.
With so many dreams and ambitions in mind lying dormant or rather never tried to realize them just to make people around us happy and proud and just to fulfill everybody's promise. Like any other Indian I am going to enter the corporate world.Well after all this I still feel I have achieved something, HAPPINESS, in living a life for others for after all they are the people who care for you and live for you, so what is wrong in living for them.... well when i write these last sentences I am reminded of these words
   "You can only live your life once, if you do it right, live for the right people then once is enough"-paulo coelho