Friday, December 25, 2015

Lifetime refuge



Well, this picture says it all. The smile and happiness that I have since I found refuge in your heart. 60 days of having you by my side is a whole lot to talk about my man. All have wondered why no blog for such a long time and to write about someone this important and special I needed my time. This being the first blog I'm writing as Mrs. Shivaish, I wanted it to be about the man who was born to be my all. Leaving the people who gave you Birth, leaving the little boy who helped you grow alongside him, leaving the comfort zone of house, leaving the cupboards which carried your dresses,leaving the mirror which brought beauty in you all these years, leaving the television and couch which helped you run your time, leaving the kitchen which helped you learn cooking, leaving the scooty that made flying to places easy, leaving the roads that meant to be yours which you travelled day and night, thus goes the list of things that has been left, in these two months. But when I sit back and think I haven't left anything that I had,  infact God has given me all the things that I thought I left in one single bundle called husband. Where there was a father who guided me, I see this man now guiding me for my betterment, where there was a mother with whom I can share my deepest secrets, I see this man now with whom I talk anything and everything that is happening in my life. Where there was a sibling with whom I used to fight and pull pranks I have this man with whom I can still pull pranks and play with. Where I had the mirror which reflected me and helped me groom I have this man who reflects me and make me look cuter every passing day.  Where I had my television and couch which helped me pass time, I have this man who accompanies me in weirdest hours of a day(early morning or midnight) listening to my tynee tiny stories. Where I had my kitchen which developed my culinary skills, I see this man still helping me develop my culinary skills by tasting what little I make. Where I had my scooty which helped me fly places, I have this man's shoulder where I jus have to hold on and close my eyes and I can reach my destination in no time. Where I had my roads which was always waiting for me to travel, I see this man always waiting to be by myside. I wonder how one single man can adopt to be so many avatars of my life. But yes this man always does it with such an ease and with that smile in his face, which makes me grow crazy for him every single minute. Only one thing which I regret is the fact that I got to see my man after 25 years of my life, wish we could have met the day we were born so we would have had more to share in life, but nevertheless we still have lot of memories to make together as shivaish.happppyyyyy two months of togetherness sweeeeetoss.

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