Possessiveness, is a word that is being used easily within any relationship these days. Well what is possessiveness? between any two relationships this word is being footballed and used as a scape goat for any state of affairs. Nothing wrong in being possessive in a relationship.. But it is the very question of what one is possessive about the other. Is it possessiveness about the person itself or possessiveness of the things that he possess. Being possessive of the person standing opposite in a relationship is far more strong like a swirling wind, in that case the presence or absence of that person will never change the possessiveness being felt, but being possessive about the things the opposite person possess is superficial. It could anytime vanish just like the things in itself. People fight so fiercely in relationships, when they don't get what is expected from the other person, and they claim it out of possessiveness the war is fought. But if it's really possessiveness of just the person and not the things they possess then as long as the persons presence is felt there is no need to fight. But in most cases the fight is because the other person is not able to satisfy the superficial needs. So is the superficial things a manifestation of true possessiveness of the person we love... Thought to ponder....
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